Denise Duhamel’s “Kinky” turns 25! [by Stacey Lehman]

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Barbie and Ken,1960

And Limp Wrist magazine is celebrating with a special two-part issue. I’m on board! I love Denise’s Barbie inspired book of poems and if you haven’t read it, you owe yourself that pleasure. For a taste, I give you these lines, from Sensational Barbie:

        When Barbie was under

anesthesia, her whole body

replaced with smooth plastic,

she swore she heard her doctors

telling smutty jokes.

When the surgeons sliced off her nipples

to put in the silicone implants

they decided to leave the milk-outlets off

because, after this, the nerve endings

would be dead and Barbie

wouldn’t be able to feel

anything anyway….

            from Sensational Barbie, by Denise Duhamel

Here’s an excerpt from Dustin Brookshire’s editor’s letter to Limp Wrist‘s readers along with two poems from this landmark issue, selected by Kinky’s author Denise Duhamel:

Anyone that knows me knows I’m the super fan of two Ds—Dolly and Denise.  I discovered and fell in love with poetry through the work of Anne Sexton, but it is the poetry of Denise Duhamel that showed me I could write the type of poems that I wanted to write. While a few high school teachers encouraged me to write poems, they taught that pop culture references don’t have a place in poetry. Denise, a queen of pop culture references, taught me otherwise. . . 

Kinky is the book I recommend that shows poetry can be about anything.  It’s the book I pull from when people tell me that they don’t like poetry. It’s the book that (actually!) taught me something about the “Dolly rumor mill”—thanks “Barbie in Therapy, Part II” for enlightening me about the rumor that Dolly is a lesbian.  It’s a book that I keep a backup copy of in case my original is damaged beyond use. Kinky is a book that I turn to again and again, and it never ceases to entertain and inspire me. . .

Kinky turns 25 today, and this milestone birthday has inspired this special issue of Limp Wrist.  When I realized that the publication date of Kinky and Barbie’s birthday are only separated by eight days, I knew the universe was signaling that this special issue had to be created.  I’ll be forever appreciative that Denise immediately agreed when I asked if she would co-edit this issue.

Here are two poems from the Limp Wrist Kinky issue, chosen by Denise Duhamel:

In Defense of My Mother Who Never Bought Me a Barbie Dreamhouse

            by Caridad Moro-Gronlier 

I was too young to understand

just how young my mother was

when she worked the nightshift

at TRW, building spacecrafts

with her hands, too young to know

how it felt to hand over the whole

of her check to my father

who gave her an allowance—

ten dollars after 40 hours,

ten dollars he’d drop into her palm

every pay day.

I understood Barbie called the shots.

That Dreamhouse was hers, Ken,

an accessory sans the authority

to tell her what to do.

I wrote thirty-one letters

to Santa that year,

but he wasn’t in charge.

My father was.

I thought I stood a chance

because Mami loved Barbie’s

mid-century mod A frame too,

how the chalet gleamed up at us

from the slick pages of the Sears catalog,

the wonder of real jalousie windows

and wall-to-wall carpets unfurled

on the kitchen table where she calculated

just how long she’d have

to lay that chalet away,

just how much she’d have to beg

to convince my father to pay.

I watched her turn the page,

no dogear to save her place.

I’d like to say I was happy

with the Barbie Dream Plane

she placed under the tree, but I blamed her.

It would take years to understand

she didn’t want me to dream of staying put,

she wanted me to dream of flying away.

Abused Barbie

            by Dorianne Laux

Always wears long sleeves, scarves

to disguise her long neck, leggings

even in summer.  She flinches

when anyone raises a posable arm,

shoves an opposable thumb

at the door and tells her

to get out.  She drives

to the ocean’s ragged edge

with the top down, parks

near the pilings, a seagull

perched on each, the chains

between them swinging,

singing in the sea breeze. 

Here she can breathe, bring

the clean salt-scrubbed air

into her hollow body, one

of the first ever made

before they went to solid

plastic to make the legs

and arms more bendable

so she could throw them up

to cover her face. 

You can read all of Limp Wrist’s Kinky issue here.

Find out more about Denise Duhamel here

Read Denise’s blog posts here

— sdl

       

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