7 Everyday Phrases That Secretly Manipulate Your Mind—Are You Falling for Them?
6. “I can’t believe you don’t trust me on this”
When someone expresses their shock or dismay that you don’t trust them—especially in situations where you have every right to question them—it can be a way to flip the conversation.
You came in seeking honesty, but now you’re on the defensive, reassuring them that of course, you trust them! It’s a stealthy maneuver that derails the original concern.
I once worked with an individual who consistently heard this line whenever they tried to get clarity about suspicious behavior.
