7 Shocking Signs a Man’s “Niceness” Is Just a Clever Mask, According to Psychology
Why “nice” isn’t always what it seems
We’re often told to look for a “nice guy.” Someone polite, considerate, and well-mannered. But as we’ve seen, nice can be an act. A performance. A way to gain approval without the substance of real kindness underneath.
True kindness isn’t about saying the right things or putting on a charming front—it’s about consistency, respect, and integrity. It’s about how someone treats you when there’s nothing to gain, no eyes watching, and no immediate reward for their actions.