7 Surprising Questions That Reveal a Hidden Emotional Intelligence Deficit
I used to think emotional intelligence was all about being kind, empathetic, and a good listener.
But over time, I realized it’s just as much about the questions we ask as the answers we give.
Some questions reveal curiosity and emotional awareness—while others expose a complete lack of it.
The tricky part? Most people don’t even realize when they’re asking the wrong ones.
If someone asks these seven questions, chances are they struggle with emotional intelligence more than they think.
1) “Why are you so emotional?”
This question might seem innocent, but it often comes across as dismissive.
