7 Surprising Secrets Women Use to Stay Poised and Classy After Heartbreak Revealed
3) Choosing their response
The behavior that never fails to impress me in women who stay poised and classy even after they’ve been hurt is their ability to consciously choose their response to the situation.
You see, when we are hurt, our immediate instinct is often to react—to lash out, withdraw or behave in a way that doesn’t reflect our true selves, but these women understand something fundamental about human behavior: We can’t always control what happens to us, but we can control how we respond to it.
