7 Unexpected Clues You’re Out of Sight, Out of Mind – And No One’s Telling You
3. They don’t invite you to spontaneous hangouts
I once learned about a last-minute barbecue one of my friends threw. Several people I knew had been there, but I only found out when they posted pictures on social media.
I’m not going to lie–it stung.
Looking back, I realized they probably saw me as someone who wouldn’t add much energy to a casual gathering, so my name wasn’t on the top of their invite list.
Spontaneous hangouts often happen with people who are considered fun, engaging, or simply good company.
