8 Boundaries Most People Can’t Handle — Are They Secret Narcissists?
If they constantly disregard it, that’s a sign they don’t see you as an equal—they see you as someone to control.
2) They guilt-trip you for saying no
I used to have a friend who always needed favors—rides, money, emotional support at all hours.
At first, I didn’t mind helping. But the moment I started setting boundaries, things changed.
One day, I told them I couldn’t lend them money because I was saving for something important.
Instead of understanding, they sighed dramatically and said, “Wow, must be nice to have the luxury to say no. I wish I had that.”