8 Common Phrases That Secretly Reveal Poor Social Skills—Do You Use Them?
But when we use these absolutes, we paint the other person into a corner, making them feel defensive rather than understood. Instead of solving a problem, it turns the conversation into a battle of right and wrong.
Healthy communication is about expressing concerns without attacking the other person’s character. Instead of saying, “You never listen to me,” try, “I don’t feel heard when this happens.”
A small shift in wording can make a big difference—it turns conflict into connection and blame into understanding.