8 Common Phrases That Secretly Reveal Poor Social Skills—Do You Use Them?
The truth is, if you feel the need to add this disclaimer, it’s worth reconsidering how you’re about to phrase what you say.
Kindness and honesty aren’t opposites—you can be direct without being hurtful. And sometimes, the best way to get your point across is to say it in a way that makes the other person actually want to listen.
8) “That’s just the way I am”
Saying “That’s just the way I am” might seem like a statement of self-acceptance, but more often than not, it’s an excuse to avoid growth.
This phrase usually comes up when someone is called out for negative behavior—whether it’s being overly blunt, dismissive, or difficult to work with. Instead of considering how their words or actions affect others, they use this line to shut down any possibility of change.
