8 Common Phrases That Secretly Reveal Poor Social Skills—Do You Use Them?
In many cases, “I don’t care” is actually a defense mechanism, a way of protecting oneself from potential criticism or judgment. It’s a way of saying, “I’m not invested in this, so you can’t hurt me.”
But in doing so, we put up a wall between ourselves and others. We close off the opportunity for connection and understanding.
And that’s not what effective communication is about. It’s not about protecting ourselves—it’s about opening ourselves up, sharing our thoughts and feelings, and seeking to understand others.
