8 Common Phrases That Secretly Reveal Poor Social Skills—Do You Use Them?
So if you find yourself using “whatever” frequently, it might be time to reconsider your choice of words. Remember, effective communication isn’t just about what you say, but also how you say it.
4) “You always…” or “You never…”
These phrases can be a fast track to conflict.
When you start a sentence with “You always…” or “You never…”, it tends to put the other person on the defensive. It feels like an attack, an accusation. It’s as though you’re saying they never do anything right or they’re always doing something wrong.