8 Surprising Habits You’ve Likely Overlooked That Secretly Push People Away
Maybe you mention a trip you’re planning, and they jump in with a story about how they’ve already been there—twice. Or you share a personal accomplishment, and they counter with something even more impressive.
Most of the time, this isn’t meant to be rude. It’s just a natural instinct to relate by sharing our own experiences. But when it happens too often, it can make people feel like their moments aren’t important.
Not every story needs a comparison. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is just listen, be excited for them, and let their moment stand on its own.