Are These 7 Everyday Phrases Secretly Sabotaging Your Gratitude?
2) “You shouldn’t have”
Yes, I’m guilty of this one too. When someone gives me a gift or does something special, my immediate reaction used to be, “You shouldn’t have.”
I thought it was a humble way to express surprise and gratitude. But over time, I’ve realized it can sound dismissive.
When we say “You shouldn’t have,” it implies that the person made an unnecessary effort or expense. It can come off as if we’re minimizing their kindness or downplaying their gesture.
For instance, when a friend surprised me with a homemade dinner after a tough day, my first response was, “Oh, you shouldn’t have.”
