“Are You Unknowingly Sabotaging Your Growth? Discover the 7 Common Phrases That Keep You Trapped in Victim Mode!”
2) That’s just the way I am
For a long time, I used to say this when faced with criticism or challenges. If someone pointed out that I was too hesitant to take risks or that I avoided confrontation, I’d shrug and say, “That’s just the way I am.”
At the time, it felt like I was standing my ground, owning who I was. But in reality, I was using it as an excuse to stay stuck. Instead of seeing areas where I could grow, I convinced myself that change wasn’t possible.
The truth is, we’re all capable of growth. Who we are isn’t set in stone—we’re shaped by our choices and habits. When I finally stopped telling myself this phrase and started asking, “What could I do differently?”, things started to shift.
