“Beware the Silent Tactics: 7 Alarming Moves Manipulators Make When You Withdraw Your Caring”
I remember an old friend who had a manipulative streak. When I finally built up the courage to distance myself, she suddenly started reminiscing about our ‘good times’ together. She’d send me pictures from our past adventures, reminding me of the bond we once had.
It was a clear attempt to make me forget why I was pulling away and re-establish the status quo. But I realized what she was doing—using our shared history as a manipulative tool—and stayed firm in my decision to distance myself.
Recognize this tactic for what it is and don’t let past memories cloud your judgement in the present.