The Hidden Childhood Secrets Behind Why Some People Avoid Eye Contact Revealed
Those cultural norms can stick well into adulthood, making it second nature to avert one’s gaze during conversation.
During my time at university, I befriended classmates from various cultural backgrounds. One of them explained that, in her household, not looking elders in the eye was a form of respect. It was ingrained from childhood: you keep your head slightly bowed, eyes lowered.
Even though she now lives in a Western culture where direct eye contact is considered a mark of confidence, she finds it tough to override those years of ingrained habit.
