“The Hidden Cost of Agreeability: How My Quest to Please Others Nearly Destroyed Me”
And that’s not a trade-off anyone should be comfortable with.
5) The confrontation confession
There was a moment that finally pushed me to confront my agreeability issue.
It involved a close friend who was planning to move abroad. She wanted to have a farewell party at my home, knowing it was spacious and conveniently located for all her friends.
I didn’t want to host the party. I was already swamped with work, and the thought of preparing my home for a big event felt overwhelming. But as usual, I found myself on the verge of saying ‘yes’.
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