The Hidden Red Flags Behind Smiles: When Kindness Conceals a Secret Agenda
The kindness that comes naturally to us doesn’t feel like a bartering system. It doesn’t feel like we’re giving something away with the expectation of getting something back in return.
It’s not a trade-off or a calculation of benefits.
But when someone’s kindness feels more like they’re trying to negotiate with you, it could be a sign that their intentions aren’t as genuine as they seem.
Do they seem to be always looking for something in return for their kindness? Do they make you feel obliged to reciprocate in some way?
