The Hidden Red Flags Behind Smiles: When Kindness Conceals a Secret Agenda
So while it’s great to be kind, remember that genuine kindness is balanced.
It respects both the giver’s and the receiver’s boundaries and doesn’t leave anyone feeling overwhelmed or exploited.
7) Their kindness disappears when they’re under stress
One of the most telling signs that someone’s kindness may be an act is how they react under pressure or stress. Is their kindness the first thing to go when things get tough? If so, this might be a red flag.
Genuine kindness isn’t conditional. It doesn’t disappear when things get difficult or when you’re not in a good mood.
