The Hidden Red Flags Behind Smiles: When Kindness Conceals a Secret Agenda
2) Their kindness is inconsistent
Inconsistency is another thing to look out for. One day they’re the kindest person you’ve ever met, and the next, it’s as if they’ve flipped a switch, becoming cold or indifferent.
This inconsistent kindness can be a red flag that their kindness might just be an act.
I’ve experienced this firsthand. I had a colleague who was incredibly kind and supportive when we first started working together. She would always offer to help with projects, listen to my ideas, and give me positive feedback.