The Hidden Red Flags: How to Spot a Mean-Spirited Person Behind a Friendly Mask
6. They relish conflict and drama
Conflict is a normal part of life, and sometimes we have to address tensions directly.
However, mean-spirited people often seek out these clashes. They’ll stir up arguments, blow small problems out of proportion, or provoke others just to watch the chaos unfold.
Like I said earlier, they love stirring the pot. To them, the adrenaline of confrontation and the power it gives can be addictive.
If you notice that someone always seems to be in the middle of a heated dispute, there’s a high chance they’re fueling the fire behind the scenes.
