The Hidden Red Flags: How to Spot a Mean-Spirited Person Behind a Friendly Mask
If you’ve ever had that uneasy feeling around someone who’s “nice,” only to discover they secretly thrive on snark and negativity, you’re not alone.
After several eye-opening encounters, I started picking up on subtle warning signs that reveal a mean-spirited mindset—even when someone seems outwardly pleasant.
And if you’re curious about spotting these red flags before you get caught in their crosshairs, read on for six telltale signs that someone might not be as kind as they pretend to be.
1. They consistently put others down
One of the biggest red flags I’ve come across is when someone seems to derive pleasure from belittling others.