The Hidden Red Flags: How to Spot a Mean-Spirited Person Behind a Friendly Mask
They might act supportive in a group setting, but the moment you’re alone with them, they’ll comment on someone’s appearance, intelligence, or choices in a cutting way.
This negativity often hides behind a veneer of “humor” or “just being realistic.”
The truth is, if their jokes always revolve around someone else’s perceived flaws, there’s a good chance they’re masking some of their own insecurities through put-downs.
I remember a friend who thought poking fun at everyone’s quirks was a bonding experience. But over time, I realized she never turned that sarcastic lens on herself—only on others.
