The Hidden Red Flags: How to Spot a Mean-Spirited Person Behind a Friendly Mask
These remarks can be veiled in polite conversation, making it tricky to call them out without sounding defensive.
In essence, they’ll try to dim your light so theirs appears brighter.
I recall the time I excitedly shared my new project with someone who seemed outwardly supportive.
She nodded, but then quickly rattled off reasons why my achievement wasn’t all that impressive. “A lot of people do that,” she shrugged.
It left me feeling deflated when I should have been celebrating.
Here’s what I’ve learned – those who truly care about you will applaud your successes, whether big or small. Full stop.