“The Hidden Signs: 8 Surprising Behaviors of Adults Who Never Experienced True Love as Children”
This doesn’t mean that striving for excellence is bad. It’s when this pursuit becomes an obsession, a relentless quest for validation, that it becomes harmful.
4. An overwhelming need for control
Let’s talk about control.
Control can be a comforting thing, especially for those who grew up in unpredictable environments. If you never felt loved as a child, you might try to exert control over your surroundings, your relationships, and even yourself as a way to feel safe.
Makes sense, right?
But here’s the problem. The need for control can become overwhelming. It can lead to rigid routines, high stress levels, and conflict with others who don’t adhere to your rules. It can limit spontaneity and joy, trapping you in a tightly woven web of your own making.
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