The Secret Language of Manipulation: How These Subtle Phrases Reveal a Mastermind at Mind Games
4) “I’m just saying it like it is”
This phrase is a classic in the mind games playbook.
When a man says, “I’m just saying it like it is,” he’s positioning himself as the one with the power, the one who holds the truth.
The implication is that he’s just being honest, even if it’s not what you want to hear. It’s a way of deflecting any criticism or disagreement that could be directed his way.
The truth is, no one has a monopoly on reality. We all have our own perspectives and interpretations.
When you hear this phrase, know that he’s trying to establish dominance in the conversation.
