The Shocking Truth About Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Partners—And How to Finally Break the Cycle
And when you inevitably realize that your “perfect” choice wasn’t so perfect after all, the cycle repeats itself.
Having standards is good. But if you find yourself constantly disappointed, ask yourself: “Are my expectations helping me find love—or keeping me from it?”
3) You mistake intensity for love
If a relationship doesn’t feel like a rollercoaster, does it even count? That’s the mindset a lot of people have—mistaking emotional highs and lows for real connection.
I used to fall into this trap myself. The unpredictable, emotionally charged relationships felt exciting, like something straight out of a movie.



