The Shocking Truth About Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Partners—And How to Finally Break the Cycle
But the first step? Recognizing that stability isn’t boring—it’s actually what love is supposed to feel like.
4) You ignore the red flags (because you want to see the good)
We’ve all done it. You meet someone, and even though there are clear warning signs, you convince yourself they’re just misunderstood. You focus on their potential instead of their reality.
I used to be an expert at this—turning red flags into “quirks” and toxic behaviors into “things we could work through.” But here’s the thing: people show you who they are early on. It’s just a matter of whether you’re willing to see it.
