The Surprising Behaviors That Make Some Women Harder to Handle as They Age—And Why They Don’t Even Notice It
The problem is, most people don’t like being told what to do, especially when they’re just looking to share their thoughts or vent.
Studies have shown that when people receive unsolicited advice, their brains often interpret it as criticism rather than support.
Instead of feeling helped, they feel judged.
This can slowly create distance in relationships.
Friends and family may start sharing less, just to avoid another round of “here’s what you need to do.”
The best way to stay approachable?
Wait until someone asks for advice before offering it—or simply ask, “Would you like my thoughts on this?” before jumping in.
