The Surprising Psychological Traps That Make Adult Friendships So Much Harder Than You Think
And it’s not just me. According to psychology, as we age, we tend to become more selective in our friendships.
We’re looking for more than just shared interests or hobbies; we seek emotional depth, understanding, and mutual respect.
Renowned psychologist Abraham Maslow once said, “We may define therapy as a search for value.” In many ways, this applies to our friendships too.
As adults, we are essentially looking for relationships that add value to our lives, and that takes time and the right people.