Unlock the Secret: What Emotionally Intelligent People Avoid When Facing Difficult Personalities
Emotionally intelligent people value their peace too much to let grudges live rent-free in their minds. When they’re wronged, they process their feelings, maybe vent to a trusted friend or counselor, and then actively choose to move forward.
That might mean forgiving the other person, or it might mean cutting ties if the relationship is harmful. In either scenario, they release the resentment so it no longer has a hold on them.
I’ve found that letting go of grudges doesn’t mean you erase boundaries or forget the lessons you learned. It just means you’re not allowing the past to dictate your present state of mind.