“Unlocking Perception: 7 Surprising Micro-Impressions That Can Make or Break Your Image”
But I know firsthand that it can be tricky to find that balance—too intense, and it feels awkward; too little, and people might assume you’re disinterested.
I find that following a natural rhythm, similar to how you’d keep eye contact while genuinely listening to a close friend, is the sweet spot.
It’s not about staring someone down; it’s about conveying, “Hey, I’m here, I’m listening, and I value what you have to say.”
2. Tone of voice that aligns with your intention
When I was an athlete, I remember one coach whose pep talks got me fired up every single time. He didn’t just say the right words—he said them in a tone that resonated. It was firm yet encouraging, passionate but never desperate.
