“Unmasking the Double Life: Discover the 8 Sneaky Behaviors of Those Who Charm You Publicly But Plot Behind Closed Doors!”
4) They dismiss your feelings but expect you to respect theirs
When they hurt you, it’s not a big deal. You’re being too sensitive. You’re overreacting.
But when the roles are reversed? Suddenly, every small inconvenience is a personal attack.
If you say something they don’t like, they’ll make sure you know it. If you ever call them out on their behavior, they’ll play the victim—acting as if you’re the one being unfair.
This imbalance is intentional. By minimizing your feelings while amplifying their own, they keep control of the dynamic.