“Unmasking the Ghosters: Discover the Surprising Traits That Reveal Why They Disappear Without a Trace!”
Unhealed trauma can push someone to make choices that seem abrupt or harsh. While it’s never an excuse to leave others hanging, it does shed light on the complexity behind their actions.
6. They are people-pleasers underneath it all
Strange as it sounds, I’ve met individuals who ghost because they hate disappointing others.
They dislike saying “no” or expressing disagreement. When the pressure builds, the stress of letting someone down becomes too much, so they vanish to avoid direct conflict.
In my consulting days, I worked with a colleague who could never say “no” to clients. He’d promise everything, then disappear when he couldn’t deliver. It was his misguided way of saving face.
