“Unmasking the Hidden Struggles: 7 Surprising Behaviors of Those Lacking Childhood Validation”
It took some time, but I’ve learned to graciously accept compliments and even give myself a pat on the back when it’s due. It’s not about becoming arrogant but recognizing your worth and the value you bring.
3) Excessive people-pleasing
A common behavior in adults who lacked validation as children is excessive people-pleasing. They often find themselves going out of their way to accommodate others, sometimes at the expense of their own well-being.
The underlying fear is rejection or disapproval. If they can keep everyone around them happy, they reason, then they’ll be accepted and valued.
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