“Unraveling Resilience: 10 Surprising Traits You Never Knew Were Shaped by a Chaotic Childhood”
On one hand, they crave it because it was missing in their early life. On the other hand, they understand that too much control can be an illusion, a lesson learned from their unpredictable upbringing.
This paradoxical relationship with control can manifest in various ways. Some might become meticulous planners, trying to anticipate every possible outcome. Others might embrace spontaneity, knowing that no amount of planning can guarantee certainty.
As Sigmund Freud famously said, “The mind is like an iceberg, it floats with one-seventh of its bulk above water.” This is a poignant reminder that our experiences, including those from our childhood, shape our behaviors and attitudes in ways we may not fully grasp.
