“Unseen Consequences: 8 Common Phrases You Didn’t Know Were Hurting Others”
But when used as a response to feedback or criticism, this phrase can be problematic.
It can come across as an excuse to avoid growth and evade responsibility for one’s actions or words.
In reality, we’re all works in progress. We have the capacity – and the responsibility – to learn, grow, and change for the better.
Using “That’s just how I am” as a shield against self-improvement can stunt our personal growth and strain our relationships with others.
Next time you’re tempted to use this phrase in response to feedback, consider instead acknowledging the input and reflecting on how you can learn from it.
