“Unseen Consequences: 8 Common Phrases You Didn’t Know Were Hurting Others”
Instead of using absolute terms, aim for more constructive criticism.
Use specific examples and focus on the action, not the person. This encourages change and growth, rather than fostering resentment and defensiveness.
8) “No offense, but…”
“No offense, but…” is a phrase that often precedes an offensive or hurtful comment.
People who lack social awareness might use it as a disclaimer, a way to soften the blow of what they’re about to say.
But here’s the kicker – it usually does the exact opposite.
This phrase signals that the speaker is aware their comment might be offensive, but they’ve chosen to say it anyway. It can feel dismissive and disrespectful to the listener.
