“Unseen Signals: 8 Surprising Behaviors That Reveal the Depths of Loneliness in Everyday Life”
5) They’re often perceived as aloof or distant
I’ve noticed that people who are deeply alone can sometimes come across as aloof or distant. It’s not that they’re uninterested or uncaring; rather, they’re just trying to protect themselves.
I remember feeling puzzled when a colleague, who was usually cordial but distant, suddenly started sharing deeply personal stories with me.
It was only when I took the time to truly listen and empathize, did I understand the depth of her loneliness.
This aloofness is often a defensive mechanism, a shield to protect their sensitive hearts. It’s their way of avoiding potential heartbreak or disappointment.
