“Unseen Signs: 7 Surprising Red Flags That Could Ruin Your Relationship Dreams”
3) They make you feel “lucky” to be with them
I used to think feeling lucky in love was a good thing.
And sure, appreciating your partner is important. But there’s a difference between gratitude and a quiet, nagging feeling that you’re somehow less—that they’re the “catch” and you’re the one who has to prove yourself worthy.
This can show up in subtle ways. Maybe they remind you how many people are interested in them, or how “hard” it is to find someone like them.
Maybe they frame your disagreements like they’re doing you a favor by staying. Over time, this creates an imbalance where you feel like you have to earn their love instead of simply being loved.
